Remembering cousin Edgar Allan Rivera

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Edgar Allan Rivera was my second cousin on my mom's paternal side, the Reyes side.

Allan passed away seven years ago on March 2, 2014 at the tender age of 43.  This past November 16 should've been his 50th birthday.  Time sure flies.

Tita Lita and my mom were first cousins.  But Allan, and his kuya Jun, were more like my brothers from another mother.

NYOFACE Football, fantasy football, just isn't the same without you Allan.  Thinking of you and Jun.  Please take care of Tess, until we meet again.



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