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Dubai • September 2021

Bhing's Birthday in Dubai: A Night Inside an OFW Home

Lunch with my fellow Hogan Spartan Glenn Victa turned into an evening at Isagani and Bhing's family home — shared with just one other adult, not the crowded bedspaces many OFWs bunk with in Dubai — celebrating Bhing's birthday with friends old and new.

L to R: Dennis, J.F., Glenn & Isagani. Bhing's birthday, Dubai, September 9, 2021.

By September 9, 2021, I was more than two weeks into a 39-day stay in Dubai — long enough that the city had stopped feeling like a layover and started feeling like a second address. The day began with lunch and ended in a stranger's apartment, celebrating a birthday for someone I'd only just met.

Glenn Victa and I — both Hogan Spartans — reunited that afternoon at Jollibee in Burjuman Mall, then walked over to his favorite spot in the city, Shahi Mughal, for the lamb chops he'd been talking up since I landed. That evening, my best friend Khristine Salazar invited us to her friends Isagani and Bhing's apartment, where a small group had gathered to celebrate Bhing's birthday.

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Reporting from Gulf News and GMA News Pinoy Abroad has documented Filipino workers in Dubai renting partitioned rooms and bedspaces — sometimes eight to ten adults to a single unit — just to afford the city. Isagani and Bhing's apartment, shared with just one other adult, Dennis, was the exception that night, not the rule.

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Shared identity; seeing another person's welfare as bound up with your own. It's the value behind a stranger opening his home to a countryman passing through — and why, a few hours later, he isn't a stranger anymore.

Lunch Before the Party

Glenn and I hadn't seen each other in years before that afternoon. We met at Jollibee in Burjuman Mall — a fitting spot for two Fil-Ams catching up on the other side of the world — before he took me to Shahi Mughal, a Pakistani restaurant he'd claimed as his own since moving to Dubai. The lamb chops were exactly as good as he'd promised.

Isagani and Bhing's Apartment

That evening, Khristine brought us to Isagani and Bhing's place to celebrate Bhing's birthday. What struck me walking in was how much room there was, and how much it felt like a family home rather than a bunk-style OFW setup. Only one other adult, Dennis, shared the apartment with them — a small household by Dubai OFW standards, where it isn't unusual for ten or more adults to split a two-bedroom unit, partitioning the living room into makeshift bedrooms just to make the rent work. Gulf News and GMA News Pinoy Abroad have both reported on how common that arrangement is — curtained bedspaces, subdivided rooms, whole households splitting a single flat to keep the remittances flowing home. Isagani and Bhing's apartment wasn't that. It was, by comparison, spacious — and it still felt, unmistakably, like an OFW household: modest, shared, and generous anyway.

I was grateful to have made friends with Isagani, Bhing, and Dennis, and to have shared in their celebration.

The Party

I filmed the evening on my Sony a6000 — the group catching up, trading jokes about who was really "fresh from Dubai" versus fresh from America, filming a few playful takes for the camera, and eventually settling into drinks and toasts. At one point in the video, I call out that the night feels like a Hogan High School reunion — which, with Glenn in the room, it kind of was. The footage runs 6:43. I've embedded it below, unedited, the way it happened.

Friends Now, Not Strangers

I met Isagani, Bhing, and Dennis for the first time that night, and by the time we left, they weren't just Khristine's friends anymore — they were Glenn's and mine too. That's the part of OFW life that doesn't show up in housing statistics: the hospitality that shows up anyway, in a modest apartment, for someone passing through for a month. Grateful doesn't quite cover it. Salamat, Isagani. Salamat, Bhing. Happy birthday.

Sources

• Gulf News — "Soaring UAE rents push residents into bed spaces"
• GMA News Pinoy Abroad — "Former OFW wants other Pinoys in Dubai to own homes, move on from paying rent"

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