Happy Birthday to my Father-In-Law

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Flashback to March 29, 2005

Tess, the kids and I were vacationing in Valencia, Bukidnon, Philippines so we were able to celebrate my father-in-law's birthday in person.

Wishing you peace, love & laughter and better health po. Cheers to you po.

Today is the 29th. It has been two years and three months since my wife, Tess Garcia Perseveranda, passed away due to complications of COVID-19. Remembering you Tet!

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Location: Valencia City, Bukidnon, Philippines

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