First Meeting: May16 1999

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#FirstMeeting #LoveAtFirstSight #May16 1999, the day her nephew was baptized. I missed the deciding game between the Sacramento Kings vs Utah Jazz while Tess’ big sister and cousin ‘interviewed” me but I didn’t care about hoops that day. We exchanged numbers, and they drove back to SoCal. What’s crazy is I didn’t call the next day, or the next week, or the next month. But starting July 5, we talked for hours until I flew down for our first date on July 23.

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