There is a sacredness in tears.

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They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. 

They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief... and unspeakable love.

Photo taken at Toni Ct. after our then only kid Baby Nica had her five-month hospital appointment.
Tess. February 27, 2001. Vallejo, CA

The quote is from my Facebook post thirteen years ago today.

Location: Vallejo, CA, USA

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