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Jian took 3rd at 152s and qualified for the North Coast Section Championships

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Jian took 3rd at 152s and qualified for the North Coast Section Championships, along with most of his teammates. Sections are Feb 21-22. http://www.ncswrestling.com/schools/117  Yours truly and my favorite son. Taken at Benicia High School gym.

Cheers To The Status: Divorced And Into The Unknown

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The day I got married was a day I thought I was in heaven. After all, my ex-husband was the only man I ever knew since meeting him from a high-school dance. I was with him for 19 years and married with  him for 15 years. To divorce a husband that was not disloyal in the marriage was a decision that had ramifications of guilt in many forms. To keep the marriage, I looked for  solutions that  could save it; like separate counselling, counselling together,  spending more time together to learn each other’s hobbies, taking more vacations, taking care of myself for my best look in my best suit, etc. But none of that could save it. Like a fabric that was already torn, I was trying to mend what was not going to make the same weave. Trust can be broken in many ways other than infidelity, and so does the sense of security get taken away without being abused. We divorced from my choice to protect my children from a dysfunctional home where alcohol was chosen by him as ...

NCS Dual Team Wrestling Championships: Benicia (Jian) vs Bethel

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Jian's Second Match of the Day I hope to broadcast live via YouTube at the next tournament.  But I need a minimum of 1000 subscribers on my latest channel.  Please click https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQiDGdF-7TecORd0_JsluMg?sub_confirmation=1 to subscribe. Thank you!

Watch: Jian - Benicia Panthers vs Las Lomas Knights

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Senior Night in Las Lomas High School Jian wrestled 162s since he weighed 159.

The Philippine–American War or Filipino–American War

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The Philippine-American War started on February 4, 1899 and lasted until July 2, 1902 A s part of my daily morning routine, I check out Google News for the latest.  I then searched " Filipino-American ."  The first item that came up was  The Jim Crow Army in the Philippine-American War . Some African American soldiers of the conflict thought fighting against fellow people of color was unjust. I'm a stickler for dates and anniversaries.  I just wanted to note that the Philippine-American War started 121 years ago, ten years before my paternal grandfather would be born. I had read up on my Philippines history before I migrated to the USA as a 9-year old.  My first library was the bookcase at my grandmother's house (down the street from my parents') full of my uncles' & aunts' school textbooks.  I even "borrowed" two of them to bring with me to Chicago. I hope my kids, from time to time, watch documentaries on YouTube to learn about th...

Bob Sampayan Announces His Run for Reelection as Vallejo Mayor

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Bob Sampayan I am running to be reelected as Vallejo's Mayor because I believe in Vallejo. Here are a few of the reasons I'm running. Please join me as we continue the progress we've made these past few years. #Vallejo #ContinueTheProgress #VallejoMayor #ElectBobMayor2020 #Sampayan2020 How do you feel about how Mayor Bob Sampayan in running the City of Vallejo? [post_ads]

Nancy Pelosi rips up Trump SOTU speech. #NancyPelosiRocks trends on Twitter

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Watch Nancy Pelosi Rip Up Copy Of President Donald Trump’s State Of The Union Speech H ouse Speaker Nancy Pelosi ripped up a copy of President Trump 's speech just as he finished his third State of the Union address. Nancy Pelosi trended on Twitter on both sides of the spectrum. #NancyPelosiRocks #MadamSpeaker #NancyTheRipper #PettyPelosi #PelosiTantrum You get disgusted by Pelosi's ripping up pieces of paper, but you don't get disgusted by Trump's "Grab 'em by the p#ssy!" (and assaulting women) and vote him POTUS?! GET OVER YOURSELF!   [post_ads]

Writing in my third language

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I am a writer, and I have always been inclined to writing ever since I have learned grammar in school. For someone whose first language is English, it is not surprising to be a writer; but having published a book for children and to be asked the question in the U.S., "Did you write it in English or in your language?" surprises me. Most Filipino writers I know, write in English - and proficiently. Unless one had a further degree in Filipino language , then this is another unique story. Anyone who grew up in the Philippines and finished a degree through the country's educational system,  can totally relate to this blog.  The country, being so diverse in its culture has 8 major languages and over 170 dialects. Small archipelago as it is, the neighboring townspeople do not speak the same language as the other, nor their dialects/languages come similar as Portuguese would be to Spanish . So as an Ilocano , I spoke Ilocano in my daily life, except in formal instructi...